Soo this post was inspired by a certain someone (who's name will remain private) that had the nerve to assume I wasn't being myself because I got extensions....Interesting. It's very interesting to me because these days there are very few girls like myself that stay true to ourselves. I witness girls all the time who clearly lose sight of themselves to try to win a guy over I guess. One girl i know started dating a guy then had statuses like "ooh i'm watching Law & Order" (his fave show). I have remained a non-fan of shows that I already knew I didnt like before (hence being myself). Some girls write about watching football, cooking, and bringing him lunch to work (things they know they really wouldn't do if they werent with him). Everything he likes she likes. AHHNNT! Ladies this is not the way to be.
I'm not sure what wires got crossed when that certain someone was learning what it meant to be yourself, but wearing a little makeup and getting your hair done every now and then is not losing yourself. IN this case it's called being a girl. Anywho if you want to stay true to yourself it's simple just stay TRUE to yourself. Meaning:
Don't stop liking shows or activities just because he thinks it's WACk.
Don't think that just because you started dating a guy you've joined a cult. He likes football now you watch football. He likes to sleep all day. Now you're getting 12 hrs of sleep.
And when he drops his UN-ASKED for opinion on you simply respond:
Well I like it. If you don't like what you see...close your eyes.
If you don't like doing this...maybe we can catch up with each other later.
If you don't wanna eat this...here's pizza hut's delivery menu.


love it...also some girls start habits because their new mate has 1..so not cute chiefing with yo nigga all day!! more people need to find themselves 1st b4 they let anyone else in!! good post
ReplyDeletethats wat im sayin girl...these chicks need to fall in love with themselves first.
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